The replies to my previous post were overwhelming, and to be honest, I really am not sure what to make of it all. If you are curious, I have emailed the person a few weeks ago, and told me all about my thoughts and what I found. He sent me a long reply, admitting to the lies but never justifying or telling me what were true or false in what he has told me. He also went on to tell me what had happened in his life in the past few months that he was gone, which I really, really do feel sorry for him.
I don't know - as much as he has lied, I really cannot judge whether he'll do anything harmful to anyone, because a big part of me still trust him and has admiration for him. However, he read my previous post and has since deleted his blog. One reader also guessed who this blogger is. I only hope he'd come back to blogging and clear things up. I really don't have much respect for people who lie, just personally.
As for me, I am not affected by it at all - if anything, I only feel bad that he's stopped blogging altogether and just disappeared because that is not my intention at all. I really do hope he'll write back to me.
In other news, I came out to a pretty close friend last night. He's someone I have a lot of respect for and we are starting a new venture together. I've always been envious of his achievements, and getting to travel around the world. It's pretty hard to catch him, but last night, he called me on Skype and we had a chat about life, general awesomeness and I found out he was actually envious of the things I have done and achieved in the short 1 year I am in Brisbane.
We yarned for a bit before we decided we need to talk more. He then told me he needed to be honest with me and have always had a feeling that I wasn't straight. So, I came out to him and later he came out to me as well - that he's at least bisexual.